just stuff

been a long week & not over yet......................

grandpa had his funeral on wednesday ...................

haven't had a chance to chat with aunts & uncle about anything......they are busy with the loss of their father..............

it is so hard to lose anyone you love & a parent (or grand parent) can be the hardest............no matter how "expected" it is.................it never really is what you expect it to be

moving up takes on a new meaning wiht these losses.................

we are in line to take care of your aging parents............to assist as they need us.......we are not the childern any more.
we are the adults
we are looking at taking care of our childern & our parents, possilby both of them at the same time.....................

we be the sandwich generation..................working 40++ hours/week, caring for both our kids & our parents ............who need may us even more than our childern do...............................