Monday, April 25, 2005

In reality, life is perverse and human beings don't get what they deserve.*

so unfair...............................

today was one of those horrible days

one of my dearest friends died today..... unexpectedly.... abruptly....

she was ill

altho she wouldn't let her family or friends know just how bad she felt.....
it was always,
for her,
others first............ so we didn't know

she beat her cancer ..................
only to be hurt deep inside by the treatments she'd recieved for it.......
then stress from the loss of her husband, she looked at finishing raising her boys all alone............

and being all alone for the first time in her life.....................

she was strong tho.................. she was planning her life for herself

she was re-meeting the people in her life that had been important (family & friends from far away times & places)
and she was meeting new folks.....making new friends with interests that she shared & hadn't been able to indulge

she will be greatly missed
she was greatly loved

we bead this frog for you dear friend

go in peace
go with god



*quoted from> http://tinyurl.com/9n8k4

2 comments:

  1. Dearest Debb,
    Nothing shared in love is ever lost.
    Love binds all of us together in a relational whirlwind that transcends time itself.
    Yes, our hearts break now for the loss we feel today; but one day, we will all dance together again!

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  2. Life can be short and sweet or it can be long and drawn out. Who is to say which is best? In the long run, we all will pass on to the next plane of existance - remembered by those who loved us. I feel for your loss and I understand your grief - it will pass and you will keep the good memories and you will smile again.

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